I came across an interview Fantasia did about a month ago, where she states that women who want to lead in a relationship can't find a man! Check out exactly what she said and let me know if you think she is right! During a recent interview, Fantasia said,
“Most women are trying to be the leader. That’s why you can’t find a man. You can’t be the king in the house. Fall back and be the queen and let your man lead the way.” She went pretty deep, also saying,

“That’s why we bump heads. I feel like it’s a generational thing. We can go real deep on that, but it’s a generational curse and how society have placed our men and women have to stand up and be the mother and the father. You have to find how to submit. You can still be a queen. The queen plays a part. The king needs his queen. There’s certain things that he can’t see that we see.”

~ The Grio

I can see what Fanny is saying. I can also see how strong women take issue with some of what she is saying. I think ultimately, it's what works for you and your partner or potential partner. Not every man nor woman are the same. What do you think?