If you want to change something in your life, change what you do in your daily routine.

Most people who talk to me about change are in hot pursuit of changing their finances, losing weight, and/or finding a companion.  Ladies, typically its us talking about, "I gotta find me a good man". Well sustas, let me tell you something: Stop spending half or all of your day talking to and entertaining that no good joker you been after for years, and use that time to WORK ON YOU! Start doing that daily, and you won't have to worry about finding a good man, he'll find you.