A mess. A solid mess. Another reason you've got to be careful of what you say to people. Since Usher filed for papers 4 years ago to Tameka Foster, reports have surfaced that she has threatened him bodily harm. The latest report of Tameka's threats were overheard by folks saying that she threatened Usher and his new girlfriend.What a mess! Tamkea says she never really threatened to kill Usher. She merely claimed that if he brought his new girlfriend Grace to their son's school, she'd f***k them both up! Wow.