We love Fantasia, but we guess she has never heard the saying: "The way you got 'em is the way you'll lose 'em"? Obviously not, because according to multiple reports, Fantasia's still married lover, Antwaun Cook was spotted in a North Carolina club making out with his wife! Fantasia was no where to be seen at the club.

The insider revealed:

"Antwaun was shoving his tongue down her throat and she kept having to push him away without trying to make a scene. He told Paula that she belongs to him because she's still his wife! What Fantasia doesn't know is that through all of this, Paula hasn't changed the locks on the house she once shared with Antwaun. And Antwaun still has keys, so you can put two and two together. Antwaun has lost interest in Fantasia. He was even egging people on to take pictures of him and Paula together…he didn't care who knew."

Other sources have revealed that Antwaun has been cheating on Fantasia while pregnant -- the same way he was cheating on his wife!

Fantasia recently had a baby boy by married lover, Antwaun December 13, 2011. The two began an affair while he was still married to his wife Paula nearly two years ago. Paula Cook filed a complaint with the court calling Fantasia a "home-wrecker" and the courts forced Fantasia to testify of the illicit affair between the two.

The news in the court docs came out that Fantasia has previously been pregnant by Antwaun, but had an abortion. Shortly after that, Fantasia attempted suicide.  Sources close to Fantasia say that she had this baby to "keep Antwaun".

Now that it seems like Antwaun and his wife could be reconciling, where does this leave Fantasia and the children?